Back in October of 2016 I was first diagnosed with breast cancer in my right breast. This was after my very first mammogram at age 42. I never thought being “only” 2 years later than the recommended beginning of screening that I would have any issues. Thankfully it was caught early (DCIS) and after a mastectomy and reconstruction I was cleared.
Two years after that, in the fall of 2018, after going to my oncologist for mammograms and ultrasounds every six months, my cancer had returned for a 2nd time, same breast (stage I). This time, I had two lumpectomies to ensure they removed all the necessary tissue. I had clear margins and thought this was the last time.
In the summer of 2021 (continuing to have regular mammograms of no concern), I started having pain in my sternum which kept getting worse and worse. I saw multiple doctors with no real conclusion until my GP ordered a chest CT in February of 2022. The radiologist found bony metastases in my sternum. After my oncologist ordered a nuclear bone scan and Abdomen/Pelvic CT they confirmed that my cancer had spread to several areas my bones. Over 2 and ½ years since my Stage IV Metastatic Breast Cancer diagnosis I am thriving on my first line of treatment. After my most recent scans, my cancer continues to be stable!!! My oncologist cannot tell me exactly how long I will live but she is confident it will be years! I am back riding my horse, though not as much as I used to. I focus on the moment that I am in now and enjoy it for whatever it brings. I have a great support system in my husband, family, friends and coworkers.
I tell you all of this, not for any pity or sorrow, but for you, ladies, to PLEASE remember to get your mammograms regularly when you are at least 40 (or earlier if you have family history). Listen to your body and don’t take no for an answer if the doctors can’t solve the problem. Men, please encourage your wives, sisters, female friends and daughters to get their mammograms. Listen to your bodies as well – although it is rare, men can also get breast cancer.
Breast Cancer Awareness is everyday – not just 30 days in October!
This year, I joined the ONE Komen community and registered for the Susan G. Komen RACE FOR THE CURE. I am dedicated to Komen's ONE mission of ending breast cancer forever, and I need your help. Please consider making a tax-deductible donation today in support of my fundraising efforts.
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