Karen Denise Robinson Gay, also known as Kay, my sister lived a fulfilling life. She was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend. Kay was full of life and had a promising future as a Delta Flight Attendant. Her outstanding performance at the beginning of her career caught the attention of Delta Airlines, leading to her recruitment. She made the decision to move from Murfreesboro, TN to Atlanta. From then she dedicated over 25 years of her life to the company.
In her late 40s, Kay was diagnosed with Inflammatory Breast Cancer. Despite this devastating news, she remained positive, determined, and committed to fighting the disease. Her relentless spirit was evident when she graciously hosted Thanksgiving for our large family at her home. She never let the disease get in the way of being hospitable and selfless. Not only was the meal she prepared remarkable, but she also had personalized aprons for all of our siblings to commemorate the day.
It is important to note, Inflammatory Breast Cancer does not typically present as a lump in the breast. This uncommon form of cancer progresses rapidly and it causes symptoms such as changes in breast color and nipple appearance. It can be compared to looking like a minor infection.
Because of her diagnosis, Kay was very adamant about making sure her sister's and loved ones stayed up to date on their breast exams and self-examinations. Although her fight ended in her passing, it was not in vain. On September 29, 2023, after a routine checkup, I received and message on my doctor's portal saying that my "mammogram and ultrasound showed a lesion that was deemed indeterminate". The doctor stated in the message that it was "probably benign" and that I could wait 6 months to repeat the imaging.
Against my doctor's advice I decided to go ahead and get the biopsy. All I could think about was Kay and her fight. I knew that I had to advocate for my body because she would want me to. On November 8, 2022 my biopsy results came back, and I was soon diagnosed with Stage II breast cancer. Although the news was devastating I was grateful that we caught it early. If it weren't for Kay and her journey, I don't know how my situation would have turned out. I am forever and eternally grateful for her.
On June 5, 2016 Kay was called to her eternal home in heaven. Every year on that day we remember our beloved Kay. She fought a courageous battle and never let her faith waver. She will always be known for putting others first, her radiant smile, and her willingness to take the lead and lend a helping hand. So, if you were to ask me why we walk, my simple answer would be "because of Kay".
