My name is Nicole Patel and I have been with Guidehouse since July 2019. If you had asked me ten years ago where I would be today, I would have said something like “serving as an officer in the Army Medical Services Corps.” However, in November of 2013, I had a nagging pain in my right breast that I could no longer ignore. My gynecologist said I had mastitis and antibiotics would fix all. Eight months, a new provider, one mammogram, and several biopsies later, I was diagnosed with ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS) on July 28, 2014. My providers shared that my best option would be a mastectomy. I like symmetry and opted for bilateral (also, prophylactic for my left side), undergoing surgery on September 2, 2014.

It has been ten years since my cancer journey began. Since then, I have learned a few things I would like to share with all of you.

1. You know your body best. If your providers aren’t willing to listen, replace them. Be your own strongest advocate.
2. Breast cancer does not discriminate. All genders, ages, and races have faced this disease.
3. Ask questions. If you want another opinion, get it.
4. If you are battling cancer, be patient with yourself and give yourself grace. Embrace the circle of those that love you.
5. If a loved one has been diagnosed with cancer, show them compassion and patience, and practice self-care. Give yourself grace.

It has been ten years and still I feel the pain, physically and emotionally. I eventually earned my graduate degree, got married, and now have a wonderful son. I have also had numerous reconstructive surgeries, cancer scares, and regular reminders of my journey. Whether it’s the struggle with my body image or having to tell a lactation consultant that I can’t breastfeed my newborn child, I often am reminded of both the trauma and how far I have come.

As a member of the Guidehouse community, I ask that you consider donating to the Susan G. Komen foundation. If you cannot donate, I ask that you be a voice that spreads awareness for the breast cancer community.

I would like to thank Kate for setting up this fundraising page and giving me an opportunity to share my story.

Warm wishes,
Nicole